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Maybe it's the webolution, the pervasiveness
of all types of media, and the ease with which we can now traverse
the small, small, world in the comfort of our favorite chairs
that's making me yawn even as I have seven applications running
at once. Fact is, there's very little today's techno generation
hasn't seen or heard or at least heard of.
Bending our minds around a tough problem rather than speed
searching for an answer, or breaking our backs to achieve
something physical rather than ordering it ready-made, would
give us a reason to go to bed tired from life, rather
than tired of it.
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Just search for it, and you're there. It's
all faster than I care to understand, and positively effortless.
And all this "easy knowing" and
fast food-everything seems to have a real effect: People who were
born in the eighties seem just a tad more world weary than us
Gen-Xers; and we seem jaded next to the Boomers.
What-ever... Do you have a point here?
Fact is, I do have a point:
It's a shame.
Not in the Jerry Seinfeld sense, but really,
truly: It's a shame.
A shame that there are so few things which
make kids today say: "WOW!"
A shame that people growing up in this
age of hyperlinked reality feel stupid being amazed by something.
Is it embarrassing that you weren't born having been there
and done that? This is the phrase that, for me, epitomizes
the new millennium. We've seen everything -- tell us something
we don't know.
This loss of wonder is tragic, but it is
natural. Social science has long maintained that the harder you
work for something, the more you appreciate it, the more you value
it, and the more satisfied you are with both the product of your
effort and with yourself.
The corollary to that, then, is that if
things are so easy, so effortless, and so accessible, we will
never connect with them in the truest sense. These things that
we acquire so fast aren't ours. We have nothing to be proud
of.
What, indeed, can we claim as our own,
if not the fruits of our own hard work?
Bending our minds around a tough problem
rather than speed searching for an answer, or breaking our backs
to achieve something physical rather than ordering it ready-made,
would give us a reason to go to bed tired from life, rather
than tired of it.
Here, then, are a few little things to
try -- to challenge ourselves to seek the harder way out:
- Next time you have a research project,
go to the bricks and mortar neighborhood library, before you
surf the Net. Get your information from real books. Smell the
musty old pages, look at the people, feel the sun filtering
through the windows between the great stacks of literature,
hear the silence. Go home with a paper you didn't cut and paste,
and a memory you can't overwrite.
- Walk places, or ride your bike, instead
of driving or being driven there. If it's safe, take a scenic
route. Look around you, notice things, step in puddles, sit
on the ground, roll in the leaves. Nature is more than just
a channel on cable.
- Make yourself -- and your family or
B/F or BFF or whoever -- a real, three course, homemade meal.
Plan what you would like to make, find the
recipes, shop for the ingredients and cook it. Set the table
nicely, with napkins and candles and flowers; really go all
out on this one. Make Martha jealous.
- Take out your little brother or sister
for an ice cream or a movie, or go camping with him or her and
a few little buddies. (OK, so I stole this one from Dawson's
Creek.) Never know what you might learn from someone half your
size. Be careful! You're a role model now.
- Interview your grandmother,
or an older relative. Write it down -- don't record it. Turn
it into an essay. Maybe it will be great for English class one
day, or maybe it will just be an amazing few hours that you
will always remember.
The point is, do something that takes
some effort.
Something that takes a while.
Something that gives you pause.
Reclaim satisfaction.
Be amazed by the results.
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