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It's 5:00 in the evening, just before dinner.
Justin, 14, and his mother are discussing his schoolwork.
Mom: Do
you have homework?
Justin: I
did it in school.
Mom: Forest's
father said that he had an algebra test tomorrow. I thought you
were in his class.
Justin: I
am. But you can't study for algebra. Either you know it or you don't.
Mom: Of course
you can study. You can study anything.
Justin: I
pay attention in class. I know what's going on.
Mom: You
only got a 70 on the last test.
Justin: 70
is good Mom.
Mom: It's
okay. But if you would study, you could get 100. You're a smart
kid. You could be at the top of the class instead of in the bottom
third.
Justin: Then
I'd be a nerd.
Mom: That's
not true.
Justin: Mom,
only nerds study. I don't care about algebra. When am I going to
need algebra? Do you think that one day somebody is going to come
up to me and ask me: if Stuart is 6 feet tall and Mary is 120 centimeters
tall, how many inches taller is Stuart than Mary?
Mom:
That's not algebra.
Justin: Mom,
Mary is a dwarf.
Mom: Don't
say dwarf, says a little person-and don't distract me. I want to
concentrate on this. We need to focus on this. You're going to college
in three years and your grades count. And if you want to go to a
good school, you have to apply yourself. Just because you've got
a good brain doesn't mean that you should just get by.
Justin: I
don't want to go to Princeton like you and Dad. I don't even know
if I want to go to college.
Mom: Don't
be ridiculous. You've got to go to college. What are you going to
do? Play in a band?
Justin: Maybe.
Mom: Even
if you do, you still need an education. You should still study philosophy
and literature and science. You should still know about the world.
Justin: There
are other ways of knowing about the world.
Mom: College
gives you a larger view--more of a perspective. And it will help
you get a job.
Justin: Maybe
not.
Mom: We can
leave that for when you have to decide. But I still want you to
study more. What happened to that study hour we set for you? I'll
sit with you and work with you on your homework.
Justin: Doesn't
that sound cozy? No way.
Mom: You
can't play computer until you've studied.
Justin: No
problem.
Mom: And
no TV.
Justin: Whatever
you say. Your punishments don't mean anything to me, mom.
Mom: I want
you to focus. I want you to work. You're wasting yourself.
Justin: It's
my life. And it's my grades. And I'm not going to study for my algebra
test. And there's nothing you can do about it. Nothing.
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