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Two
years ago, my husband and I took a radical step: We got rid of
the TV. Sort of.
I could see that my then seven-year-old
was becoming addicted. Television was always his first choice
activity. I was getting tired of the daily fights when it was
time to turn off the tube after the kids' allotted TV-watching
time was up. I'd been considering taking this step for years but
the day my son said he didn't want to come swimming with me because
he would rather stay home and watch TV, I decided to take the
plunge.
Rather than throwing it out, we put
the TV in the closet. Now, we take it out for special occasions.
And you know what? It hasn't been that bad. To see what happened
in our family and in others who took this seemingly drastic step,
click on Families
Without TV and Getting
the Box out of the House by our humor writer Sherri
Lederman Mandell. On the same page, you can laugh over Sara
Eisen's 12
Steps to Ending TV Addiction. We know this solution isn't
for everyone. And parents with televisions have their own concerns.
If you feel your teens are watching too much MTV, click on Addicted
to MTV to see what the experts have to say.
Most critics of our television-watching
culture point to violence and mindlessness on our home screens
and subsequently in our kids' minds. But some experts claim the
very act of sitting and watching television is harmful to a growing
child. Check out Alternative
View of TV to find out more.
If you have young children, you'll
want to read Esther
Wolfson's sane perspective in What's
Wrong with a Little TV? and Tips
to Limit Your Child's TV Time.
In the past two years, we've seen
a lot more floor play, outdoor activities, creative projects and
reading at our house. And post-TV crankiness is a thing of the
past. If you feel your kids are watching too much TV, try the
closet method for a week. Let us know what happens.
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