ADD or "Pencil Anxiety"

Q:


Dear Dr. Sylvia,

Every teacher since pre-kindergarten has suspected my 8-year-old son, who is now in the third grade, of having ADD. A school district evaluation in first grade was inconclusive. Midway through second grade he was tested by a pediatric neuropsychologist, who found him to have a superior IQ. It was determined that he does not have ADD, but is a sensitive child who has trouble getting started with tasks and regulating his stimulation level. One of his most difficult tasks is getting his thoughts on paper when he's supposed to write about his weekend, write a book report, or do a short creative writing exercise about a story he has read in class. I seem to recall hearing you discuss something called "pencil anxiety" on a radio program many years ago. Could this be part of my son's problem?

  
 

A:


Although "pencil anxiety" is not an official term, it is a term I coined for your son's problem, which is a typical pattern I find in many boys who have early handwriting problems. The problem may be due simply to the fact that boys tend to become less interested than girls in coloring, writing, cutting, and pasting during the preschool years. Therefore, their small muscle coordination seems to develop poorly as it relates to handwriting, although their ability to construct with Legos or use screwdrivers is not affected.

Elementary school-age children tend to equate fast work with intelligence, and therefore believe that the smartest kids in the class finish first. Thus, in the early grades, when writing is physically difficult and slow for them, they often give up or avoid writing altogether. They become anxious about the whole process.

I suggest an exercise I call "speeding," during which your son competes against himself to observe his writing improvement. Encourage him to use a computer and tape recorder for his story production as well. Once he gets his ideas out, he'll become less anxious about committing them to print.

For more information on pencil anxiety and "speeding," please send a self-addressed, stamped envelope to P.O. Box 45489, Cleveland, OH, 44145.

Dr. Sylvia Rimm,Phd

Copyright © 2000, Creators Syndicate, Inc.

 

 
Dr. Sylvia B. Rimm is a child psychologist, a clinical professor at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the author of many books on parenting. She appears weekly on her own radio show, Family Talk With Sylvia Rimm, and appears monthly on the NBC Today Show.
 
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