Babysitting Policy

Q:


Dear Dr. Sylvia,

What is your advice for a baby-sitting policy to let your daughter sit at someone's house?

  
 

A:


Before your daughter baby-sits for other children, it's important that you know the family for whom she is baby-sitting. That acquaintance could be indirect; for example, a family that is known by a mutual friend. If your child is inexperienced, suggest that she baby-sit free of charge while the family is at home at first so she can get to know the children. Be sure your child asks for contact numbers before the parents leave their home, and if it's the first time for your child, you may want to reassure her she can call you if she's worried. Most communities provide baby-sitting courses for children age 12 or older. Your daughter will feel more confident and will be better prepared if she's taken such a course.

Caring for children is a serious responsibility. You can encourage your child to take on that responsibility only if you feel confident she has the maturity to handle it. Baby-sitting is not reserved for girls alone. There are many boys who are capable of caring for children.

Dr. Sylvia Rimm,Phd

Copyright © 2000, Creators Syndicate, Inc.

 

 
Dr. Sylvia B. Rimm is a child psychologist, a clinical professor at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the author of many books on parenting. She appears weekly on her own radio show, Family Talk With Sylvia Rimm, and appears monthly on the NBC Today Show.
 
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