Ten-Year-Old Doesn't Do Homework

Q: How much should parents be involved in homework? Our bright, almost 10-year-old boy dawdles, is easily distracted and makes all sorts of excuses for not starting. Any suggestions?

  
 

A: At age 10, your son should be quite independent in doing his homework. I hope he's actually doing his work in a quiet place because television and siblings can certainly encourage more dawdling. It's a good idea for you to look over the work when your son is done and to give him some positive feedback when he does a good job. If he's made some major errors, he may require explanation, and if he asks for help while doing the work, it's fine for you to help him to understand the material.

Timers are helpful for kids who dawdle, with the encouragement to try to beat the timer. It's also a nice idea to plan homework time with some family event to follow, like playing a game or watching television together.

Dr. Sylvia Rimm, Phd

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Dr. Sylvia B. Rimm is a child psychologist, a clinical professor at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the author of many books on parenting. She appears weekly on her own radio show, Family Talk With Sylvia Rimm, and appears monthly on the NBC Today Show.
 
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