Five Young Children

Q: I have five children (including two sets of twins). I would like some strategies for behavior.

  
 

A: I can only imagine how exhausted you must feel guiding your five children. The best strategies for behavior come from observing a good preschool environment. Organizing your day into blocks and providing regular routines for eating, sleeping, playing, cleaning up, music, art projects, and so on, will help your children to know what to expect. Try to arrange for rest and quiet for the children at least once a day so you can use that quiet time to recover your own strength. Also, consider how you can get occasional help. Responsible, older neighborhood children may be happy to come in and keep your children busy with play for an hour or two after school. They may be able to take one or two for a walk, to a nearby playground, or to the library for story hour.

You'll soon find yourself inventing creative short cuts to help yourself through this overwhelming time. If your children are close in age, you may actually find they'll soon be good company for each other and will, therefore, keep each other busy.

Dr. Sylvia Rimm, Phd

Copyright © 2000, Creators Syndicate, Inc.

 
Dr. Sylvia B. Rimm is a child psychologist, a clinical professor at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the author of many books on parenting. She appears weekly on her own radio show, Family Talk With Sylvia Rimm, and appears monthly on the NBC Today Show.
 
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