Home Alone?

Q: What is the appropriate age to allow my son to stay home alone for short periods of time? He is responsible and has asked.

  
 

A: At age nine or ten, it would be appropriate to leave your son at home alone if he's interested. I would suggest no more than half an hour to start, with his knowing exactly where you are and how to call you. It's also important that you're not far away. Depending on how your son handles it and the general safety of your neighborhood, you can gradually increase the amount of time for his independence, but don't hurry.

By age 12, children are eligible for baby-sitting classes. They're good for all children whether or not they're interested in baby-sitting. They provide some important safety tips and kids will listen more carefully to an instructor than they will to their own parent.

Dr. Sylvia Rimm, Phd

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Dr. Sylvia B. Rimm is a child psychologist, a clinical professor at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the author of many books on parenting. She appears weekly on her own radio show, Family Talk With Sylvia Rimm, and appears monthly on the NBC Today Show.
 
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