• That when my husband makes a joke it has a sting to it.

• Flirting with every woman that he comes up to, a teasing flirt.

• Attitude.

• His selfishness.

• His lack of communicating his feelings and desires. He just assumes that I should know what is bothering him or what he wants from our relationship.

• I would make him less afraid to discuss the more intimate aspects of our life. He can be a communications squasher if he is embarrassed at all by the topic.

• His inability to accept and love family for who they are.
• That she would share her feelings verbally.
• I would make it so that he would talk to me about what is on his mind.

• I would change him to be a more affectionate, more loving person. He was raised by his mother alone, and she was a very cold person, and he was kind of brought up that way. He has changed in many ways, and is much better now, but still I wish for no reason, he would just come up and hug me.

• Bringing up PERSONAL issues in front of other people.

• His lack of planning/thinking ahead.

• He needs to loosen up a little. He is so "bogged" down with being the "provider" that he doesn't take time to give compliments or even show his love.

• That he would be more warm and loving and tell me what he's feeling inside.

• I would make her softer. She is uptight and doesn't know how to be sweet to me except when she wants something back.

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YOUR VOICE ON LIFE, LOVE & MARRIAGE

Q If you could change one flaw that bothers you about your spouse, what would it be?