As Good As It Gets

  
By Patricia M. Charron
 

Starring: Jack Nicholson, Helen Hunt, Greg Kinnear, Cuba Gooding Jr.
Partial nudity, sexual discussions and language
Rated PG-13.


A touching movie about love, but not about being in love; about friendships, but not flawless ones...and about compromise.

This is a great movie to watch with a date, but most people under 19 would probably find it boring. I wouldn't recommend it for children, especially if they are naive. I find some subject matter inappropriate for most children under 15. The homosexual issues are not great, but I find the blatant discussion and language by Jack Nicholson inappropriate for children, though necessary to build the character.

My husband enjoyed this movie as much as I did, and that is rare! I consider this a great film to watch with someone special. It leaves you with several lines you won't forget and much to talk about. Schedule your date around the video first and dinner or dessert second.

Questions for Discussion:
• Does Melvin appear to be a nice person?

• Did this film leave you with doubts or feeling hopeful?

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As Good as it Gets is about three people. Melvin Udall, played by Jack Nicholson, is socially inept and has a serious case of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Carol Connelly, played by Helen Hunt, is a single parent with a severely asthmatic child and she is a waitress at the restaurant where Melvin enjoys eating. Simon Nye, played by Greg Kinnear, is a homosexual artist and Melvin's neighbor. Cuba has a small part in the movie, but his part is well played and unforgettable!

The three unlikely friends, Carol, Melvin and Simon, find each other. Each has lost something: Carol, her sense of self due to the demands of caring for her son; Melvin, his ability to have and maintain a relationship due to his serious disorder; and Simon, his self-respect, due to his loss of home and possibly career. Each of them finds some satisfaction by the end of the movie, but realistically, the problems are not fully resolved.

The story is the adventure each takes from here to there. It is a touching movie about love, but not about being in love; about friendships, but not flawless ones...and about compromise.

The humor in this film could be offensive to some, so consider yourself forewarned. It is funny because it is SO politically incorrect, but it is also sad when looked at more deeply. Melvin is unable to change to way he relates to others.

 

 

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