I Love You, I Love You Not

  
By Toby Klein Greenwald
Director, WholeFamily Room
 

This deeply moving film, directed by Billy Hopkins, is about a beautiful American teenager, Daisy (played by Claire Danes, Romeo and Juliet) and her flamboyant Holocaust-survivor grandmother (played magnificently by Jeanne Moreau).


The film is replete with foreshadowing, symbolism and multi-layered meanings.

A lecturer in Daisy's school opens up, for her, the Pandora's box of her grandmother's ("Nana's") past. The director introduces black and white photography and docu-drama footage to create an atmosphere of realism in this fictional tale of a girl who struggles with the pain of unrequited love, the discovery of Nana's life and, in the process, the search for her own self and soul.

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• What does the film have to say about friendship?

• In how many ways can one understand the title of the film?

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Like a fine work of literature, the film is replete with foreshadowing, symbolism and multi-layered meanings. Daisy's parents never surface in the film, other than through phone calls, drawing her even closer to her grandmother as a mirror image of her own emotions.

Highly recommended. This film can be used in the family forum or in the classroom to teach about values like family loyalty, friendship and respect for human life and for the feelings of others.

 

 

Ms. Toby Klein Greenwald is Co-President and Director of Creative Development of WholeFamily.com. In her former life she taught film analysis and wrote scripts.
 
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