My Best Friend's Wedding

  
By Toby Klein Greenwald
Director, WholeFamily Room
 

Who among us has not struggled with the complexities of platonic male/female relationships? This delightful romantic comedy, directed by P.J. Hogan, highlights those complexities in an original and wacky way.


Who among us has not struggled with the complexities of platonic male/female relationships?

Julianne (Julia Roberts), funny, lovable, clever yet vulnerable, is a food critic who is devastated to discover that Michael (Dermot Mulroney), her former boyfriend, who is now her best friend, is about to get married to Kimmy (Cameron Diaz), a wealthy and perfectly beautiful young woman.

So where was Julianne through all those nine years of a beautiful platonic friendship, with Michael hinting that he really loved her? Only after he drops the shoe about Kimmy does she admit the truth to herself.

Julianne travels to Chicago, ostensibly to her "best friend's wedding", but really planning to break up the engagement and to tell Michael she loves him. Well, without really saying it, though, and that's where the fun comes in.

Questions for Discussion:
• Do you think it is possible that platonic friends, if they met as "dates", would often develop into lovers?

• How do you think Julianne really felt at the end of the film?

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It is great howl watching Julianne's crazy schemes come to naught, and quite touching to see her struggling with her poignant feelings for her former boyfriend. Her real platonic and equally wacky friend and editor, George, (Rupert Everret) is the loving gay confidant who encourages her schemes - up to a point.

The script, by Ronald Bass, will keep you in suspense till the end, and wondering which girl Michael will choose.

 

 

Ms. Toby Klein Greenwald is Co-President and Director of Creative Development of WholeFamily.com. In her former life she taught film analysis and wrote scripts.
 
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