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My story is a once in a lifetime story. I
was diagnosed with ovarian cancer about four years ago. I was
single at the time and struggling like everyone else in this crazy
world. I successfully completed two rounds of my chemotherapy
treatment and thought I was finished with that part of my life.

It has been so amazing how our love for one
another has been the healing power we have needed to survive.
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Then I attended a wedding on August 3, 1997
and my life changed forever. My oncologist had just informed me
that my cancer had returned and that I was to start chemo again
very soon. I attended a beautiful wedding in Temecula, California.
My best friend's daughter was getting married and I came really
at the last minute. (I wasn't feeling the greatest.) There is
where I met my Prince Charming.
We were sitting two chairs apart (there were
about 200 people there) and had been assigned the same table for
the reception. We said hello and made small talk. The evening
was coming to an end. I started to make conversation with this
fellow and the next thing I knew, I was going out with him the
following Sunday.
We have been together ever since.
Now that you know how we met, here are the
amazing facts. Like I stated earlier, I was undergoing my third
round of chemo when I met my husband. He gave me the inspiration
and love I needed to continue my course of treatment. We fell
in love instantly and three months later were engaged. We decided
to get married at our friend's home where we had met in Temucula
and decided to get married on the date we had met the year before.
You see, my husband is 19 years older than
I am. He's a police officer and thought he would be a "confirmed
bachelor" forever.
I completed my third round of chemo on our
honeymoon and thought, "Okay, this is it! I am done with
all the chemo stuff." But when we got back from our honeymoon
I went to the oncologist's office for a follow-up and was informed
that the chemo hadn't worked. I, of course, decided that a hysterectomy
was the only answer and agreed to the surgery.
Two weeks later my husband was diagnosed with
colon cancer. He had never been sick a day in his life and thought
that his days were over. He had the surgery and started his chemotherapy
immediately following.
When I met my husband I thought he had been
responsible for my recovery. His love for me was so great that
it really got me through it all. To think that I was going to
be playing that same role in his life was unthinkable.
It has been so amazing how our love for one
another has been the healing power we have needed to survive.
We laugh now thinking back on our first year of marriage. It was
the greatest and worst year of our lives. We were challenged in
ways beyond our comprehension and survived with amazing love and
understanding.
Love does conquer all. My husband and I are
"living" proof.
Amy Nomura is a regular
visitor to WholeFamily.com.
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