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They say that old age is always 15 years older than you are.
 I
can remember when the truth of this hit home most forcibly. When
I was a young mother with four small children, 16-year-old Lucy
used to come after school occasionally to baby-sit for me. One
day I returned from shopping and she told me I'd had a caller,
but she didn't remember her name.
"What did she look like?" I asked.
Lucy thought for a minute and said helpfully:
"Well, she was really old."
"How old?"
"Oh she must have been at least 30!"
By now, Lucy would be over 50 herself ...
I wonder if she still remembers that conversation.
* * *
There's a famous advertisement in the glossy
magazines promoting a face cream. The gorgeous slim model says:
"I don't intend to grow old gracefully. I'll fight it every
inch of the way." Sometimes you get tired of fighting and
decide to let nature take its course. For instance, about ten
years ago I stopped coloring my hair, and quite enjoy having it
silver-white. My hairdresser was dismayed, no doubt due to a loss
of revenue. He never stops trying to persuade me to change my
mind.
"I think I look distinguished,"
I argue.
"No my dear" he said, sighing
heavily, "You merely look extinguished."
* * *
Be that as it may, we can't escape being
"golden agers." It's a silly euphemism for growing older.
Maybe it refers to the golden handshake or the obligatory gold
watch they give you when it's time to retire. Being able to laugh
at yourself is the best remedy, like jogging on the inside.
* * *
One of the things naturally we get concerned
about as we get older is our health. Some of us go to our doctor's
clinic so often that if we don't turn up one day, the nurse says,
"We were worried about you. You didn't come on Wednesday.
Were you sick?"
* * *
One old-timer was told by his doctor that
he had two problems.
"What's the first?"
"Well I'm sorry to say your memory
is so bad that you're really senile."
"And the second?"
"You have diabetes."
The old guy thought for a moment and then
said brightly: "Just as long as I'm not senile."
* * *
Sometimes my mind not only wanders. It
leaves me completely. I have this little trick when I meet someone
whose name I've forgotten. "Now you are..?
"Mary."
"Of course I know you're Mary It's
your second name I've forgotten." Or vice versa.
It works fine unless Mary happens to be
your daughter.
* * *
It was George Bernard Shaw who wrote that
youth was such a wonderful thing it was a shame to waste it on
the young. As we get older, we think that life's experiences have
taught us all the answers. The only problem is that now nobody
bothers to ask us the questions. As a result, we sometimes like
to make our children feel guilty. Like the son who called his
mother:
"Hi Ma. How are you?"
"Not so good. I haven't eaten for
27 days, so I'm very weak."
"Good heavens, that's terrible. Why
not?"
"I didn't want to have my mouth full
of food if you should happen to call me."
* * *
Although it's true that I've been young
and I've been old, and young is often better, there are some compensations.
We all know that growing old is much better than the alternative.
* * *
I've often thought that if I had the time,
money and courage, it would be great to have a face-lift. But
you know what? The quickest and most inexpensive face-lift is
just to smile. It draws your features upwards and emits warmth
and happiness.
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