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It's October and we're all turning
our attention to costume-making (or hunting) and pretend play.
Why is it that children are so excited about Halloween? Why do
children love pretend play and more importantly, how should we
as parents relate to this excitement? Is encouraging the imagination
important to young children and if so, why?
To find out more about the crucial
role of imagination in childhood, we created an all-new Imagination
section. Since reading these thought-provoking pieces, I have
a new respect for daydreams, for free time in which to do nothing,
for the freedom to let the imagination - perhaps our most powerful
mental tool - roam.
Our world is becoming faster paced
and more frenetic every day and our kids are being swept up in
the current. School, homework, piano lessons, judo, art classes,
TV, computer games, the internet. It sometimes seems like every
minute of their waking time is taken up with an activity. Climbing
trees, playing hopscotch and tag or just gazing into the middle
distance and letting the imagination create seem to be in danger
of becoming extinct.
Great thinkers have always known
about the importance of imagination:
"They who dream by day are
cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by
night."
- Edgar Allan Poe
"You see things and you
say Why? But I dream things that never were and I say, why not?"
- George Bernhard Shaw
"I believe that imagination
is stronger than knowledge - that myth is more potent than history.
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts."
- Robert Fulghum
"You can't depend on your
judgment when your imagination is out of focus."
- Mark Twain
In Nurturing
Imagination, Sherri Mandell interviews a number of experts
who explain how valuable imagination is: from enabling kids to
be better problem-solvers to more effectively handling their own
difficult feelings to better handling stress. Click on that same
piece to read the sidebar Zombie Children about the effect of
TV on imagination.
Our Early Childhood specialist Esther
Wolfson, tells us about the critical importance of imagination
for young children in Imagination:
Childhood's Natural Gift and in Imagination:
Your Child's Window to the World. Wolfson coins a phrase,
"imagination skills" - which we hope will convince parents
that imagination is as necessary a tool for future success and
happiness as academic skills. Click on the same page to get
ideas about activities you can do with or set up for your
young child that will encourage her to use her imagination.
One mother wrote to us concerned
about her daughter's imaginary playmates. Psychologist Naomi Baum
reassures her by pointing out that "studies have shown that
children who have imaginary playmates tend to be more creative
and intelligent than average." To read more, click on Imaginary
Playmate.
To explore a mother and father's
differing attitudes towards their dreamy children, and to read
an expert's comment's on their dilemma, go to Why
are they Always Just Sitting There? A Drama.
Finally Cary Jacoby shares with
us the lessons she learned about the value of boredom in Mommy,
I'm Bored.
We hope these pieces will prod you
to remember what you already know: Our children's imaginations
are precious. Let's not lose them in the shuffle.
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