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Yes,
that's the sound of the school bell again, but don't despair--you
and your family can still build in a fun variation of the family
vacation on the weekend or their next day off. Mini-vacations
offer the same spirit-renewing benefits as their longer counterparts.
The LaClairs of upstate New York said that one-day trips are a
good match because "they fit into our time schedule and budget."
And there are plenty of fun things
to do right in your own backyard. The trick often is in finding
them and getting everyone behind the idea.
Give each family member the task
of suggesting his or her favorite place to eat and something he
or she would like to do. If their favorite restaurant is McDonald's,
that's okay, but suggest to them that this is a great time to
explore places they haven't been before. A picnic also qualifies.
The main objective is just to allow everyone to pick his or her
best idea for a fun time.
They may have plenty of ideas on
their own, but if they would like to explore the possibilities,
check out your city's Web site on the Internet. By logging onto
any of the major search engines, you should be able to search
for your city by name.
The Laclairs found that searching
the Internet for a trip to the New York State Fair 2000 simplified
things. "I got my whole driving route mapped out. It was
very helpful," Peggy reported.
Be sure to let the kids know how
far away their choices can be. Is it practical to say within 60
miles or would it be better for you and your family to stay within
the city?
Have everyone place their ideas on
3"x 5" cards. Separate these cards into a stack for
food-related activities and one for other activities. John Hannan
cut up construction paper to make the cards. Their family color-coded
the activities into the categories of food (yellow), indoor activities
(red), and outdoor activities (blue). Fold the cards in fourths
and place them in two separate containers. There will be more
suggestions than you will have time for in one day, so explain
that these are now your official good-time get-away boxes. Lynda
Hannan said their indoor activities will be a treasure this winter.
When the time is right, designate
which family members will draw the ideas from which box. Perhaps
the youngest will get to take a card from the restaurant box and
the oldest drawing one from the activity box. Depending on the
activity, you can pick ideas for lunch and dinner with an activity
in between. Or your activities may lend themselves well to a mid-morning
activity, lunch and then another activity in the afternoon. The
object is to make the day fun, not stressful, so plan your agenda
accordingly.
Amy M. of California said that this
is a great idea to formalize activities. "Sometimes it works
for us to be spontaneous, but other times it works better to plan
ahead," she said. "I love the idea of writing down the
suggestions on note cards and picking, and of course the competition
between who gets their card picked is huge in our family."
Post the one-day vacation plan in
a place where everyone will see it. There will be little dissent
since everyone has had input and will eventually have his or her
ideas used. The California family also found that discussing everything
in advance helped everyone know what to expect in terms of car
ride, departure and special needs of some family members. "They
also knew we had to leave by 2 p.m. so (the 18-month-old) could
take her nap," she explained. The only thing left is to grab
the camera and make some memories!
TAKE IT FROM ME: "We
modified this one a little for our target audience of 1.5 and
4, but it definitely went well. John and I concurred that posting
the planned activities a day in advance would produce constant
badgering from our young and impatient Jack (4), so we explained
the mini vacation concept on Sunday, the day planned for fun."
--The Hannans
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