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Mood swings and changes in attitude
and behavior are often seen in teenagers and may simply be
signs of normal adolescent angst. However, if they are extreme
or are affecting the child's functioning, they could be signs
of drug abuse or some other serious problem and should not
be ignored. Signs of drug abuse can include erratic mood swings,
irritability, falling grades, truancy, lack of interest in
usual activities and hobbies, changes in eating and sleeping
habits, weight loss and changes in personal hygiene. To explore
what is going on, you might do the following:
- Talk to your child and ask
him directly and specifically about your concerns rather
than confronting him about possible drug abuse. You could
say something like, "We've noticed that you've been
spending more time by yourself; you're not talking to us
like you used to; you seem to be less interested in school
and we're concerned." It's important for a parent to
let their child know they SEE what's going on with him.
- Find out if other people
in your child's life, such as teachers, friends and neighbors
share your concerns and/or have information that you lack.
Don't keep this exploration a secret from your child.
- If you continue to have concerns
after you have taken these steps, you would want to intervene.
Try to get support as early possible. When parents feel
alone they often feel helpless and at a loss. Possible sources
of support are people who are already in your child's life
such as teachers, counselors, friends as well as professionals
who work with teenagers.
If the problem does turn out
to be drug-related, it's important for you to know that this
is a problem that CAN be dealt with with professional help
and the earlier one intervenes, the more effective the intervention
will be. Denial only allows the problem to continue and worsen.
Do not allow your child's anger or frustration to keep you
from taking the steps you feel are necessary.
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