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Allison's Experience:
When you are a baby your life is learning
by watching, being cute and crying when you need something.
When you start pre-school your job is to
play and learn. It is a little hard but it is still a lot of fun!
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| Anyone who has taught dyslexic
kids knows that you are not stupid. The dyslexic are as bright
and creative as any other kids - sometimes even more so, because
they have to work hard to compensate and from hard work and
determination comes strength |
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When you start first grade you are very
excited, willing and wanting to learn (and do homework).
BUT, if you have a problem in school that
you don't know what to do about, you are HELPLESS!!
Everyone says to you that it is not so
bad but you still think it is the end of the world. You get used
to teachers thinking that you are stupid and that you do not try
hard enough in your school work, when you are trying your best
and when you know you are not stupid!
Then you realize when you get to high school,
when reading and writing means a lot to your world and the world
around you. The teachers say you can manage in life without reading
and writing. (They do not know what it is like and they don't
know how wrong they are!) BUT THEY ARE SO SO WRONG!!
Because how am I going to read stories
to my kids, or read an important sign or notice for that matter?
How am I going to read a birthday card? And how am I going to
sign checks if I cannot write the amount in words? What am I supposed
to do when I get a letter or e-mail, ask someone to read it to
me? And if it is private, what am I supposed to do then? If I
want to write a letter to some one and I do not want anyone else
to know about it or see it? How am I supposed to write it?
So you try to solve it or do something
about it. But you cannot find a cure. People get your hopes up
that they can get rid of your dyslexia or make it all better.
But they let you down. You try very hard at school but after a
while you start to give up and you do not want to work any more.
You devote your summer to learning while your friends are having
FUN. And all you want, all you ask for, is to read and write on
a 10th grade level!
I am still waiting for a solution. I don't
know if one exists, maybe I KNOW THAT THERE IS NOT ONE. But deep
down in my heart I hope that there is. All I can do is pray and
wait and hope.
Learning Expert Comments:
Dear Allison,
Your essay moved me deeply. I think dyslexia
is like other disabilities in that it is almost impossible to
explain to somebody who doesn't have it what it feels like.
Just as college students who are learning
how to teach the blind are required to walk around for a day with
a blindfold over their eyes, and people who work with paraplegics
are required to spend time in a wheel chair, it would be good
if every teacher who teaches kids who are dyslexic had to spend
one full day seeing words like a dyslexic person sees them.
Anyone who has taught dyslexic kids knows
that you are not stupid. The dyslexic are as bright and creative
as any other kids - sometimes even more so, because they have
to work hard to compensate and from hard work and determination
comes strength.
I think it is good that you pray and hope,
but don't wait. Yes, there ARE solutions out there and you have
to keep looking till you find the people who can help you.
Call your local school board, call the
education departments of your local universities, speak to teachers
who have received their teaching degrees recently, because they
may be aware of new methods that even more experienced teachers
don't yet know about.
We are fortunate to live at a time when
there is also a great deal of wonderful material available on
audio and videotapes. I had one student who was dyslexic and loved
history. Whenever she studied a certain period in school, she
watched every video she could get her hands on that related to
that period in history --both straight documentaries and docu-dramas.
Next year she will be starting college and her major will be history.
It will not be easy for her, but she has
perseverance and spunk and you sound like you do, too.
In addition, discover what special talents
and interests you have that do not require a lot of reading. Develop
those talents to the fullest. We know today that all kinds of
famous and brilliant people -- Albert Einstein, Mark Twain, Thomas
Edison, Leonard da Vinci -- had learning disabilities.
There are also successful business people
who are learning disabled but who are very clever with money and
their office assistants do the reading and writing they need done!
Even Cher is dyslexic! (Catch her TV spots about it!)
Professor Howard Gardener wrote a book
called Frames
of Mind, about what he calls the "seven intelligences."
The intelligences he defines are: language, math, movement, music,
visual, interpersonal (relating to others) and intra-personal
(self-awareness).
You may have difficulty with the mechanics
of one of those intelligences (not with the intelligences
themselves), or even with the mechanics of two of them, but that
doesn't mean you don't "own" that intelligence. For
instance, you may find the mechanics of language, which
is reading, difficult, but it doesn't mean you don't have
a good grasp of language, just as somebody may be a great composer
of music, but he may find the mechanics of music -- playing
an instrument -- impossible if he doesn't have the use of his
hands.
You are right when you say that one needs
reading in everyday life and that is a good reason for you to
keep looking till you find the person or the people who can help
you. But whether or not you fully overcome your difficulty in
reading, there are other areas in which you can excel which need
a minimal amount of reading.
You alone know where your areas of interest
lie. I recommend that you develop them to the fullest and put
part of your energy into being the best you can be in an area
that doesn't demand constant reading, even while you continue
to seek a solution for your reading difficulties.
Good luck Allison. You can do it!!!
Toby Klein Greenwald
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